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\u3000\u3000\u4f86\u6e90\uff1aSociety19\/BBC\u82f1\u8a9e<\/strong><\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000You want to give the best impression of yourself on first dates. Follow our guide on 10 things NOT to do on a first date to make sure you\u2019re doing everything right.<\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000It\u2019s completely normal to get nervous for a first date, and if you don\u2019t, you\u2019re very lucky.\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u7570\u5e38\u7dca\u5f35\u662f\u5f88\u6b63\u5e38\u7684\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u4e0d\u662f\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u8a71\u90a3\u9ebc\u986f\u7136\u4f60\u975e\u5e38\u5e78\u904b\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000Chances are if you like the person, you\u2019re already going to be nervous for the first date, so try not to let these nerves overcome you when you\u2019re actually on the date, or you won\u2019t have a good time.\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5f88\u559c\u6b61\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u4f60\u901a\u5e38\u6703\u5728\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u5f88\u7dca\u5f35\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u4e0d\u8981\u8b93\u7dca\u5f35\u60c5\u7dd2\u63a7\u5236\u4f60\uff0c\u5426\u5247\u9019\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u5c31\u53ef\u80fd\u4e0d\u6703\u5f88\u6109\u5feb\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000\u4e0d\u8981\u8ac7\u8ad6\u4f60\u7684\u524d\u4efb<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000One of the most common mistakes to make on first dates is talking about your exes.\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6700\u5e38\u72af\u7684\u932f\u8aa4\u4e4b\u4e00\u5c31\u662f\u8ac7\u8ad6\u4f60\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000In short, talking about your ex on a date with someone new is awkward and unnecessary. You also don\u2019t want to give the impression you\u2019re still into your ex by going on about them on the first date, and if you are, then you probably shouldn\u2019t be dating\u2026\u7c21\u800c\u8a00\u4e4b\uff0c\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u548c\u65b0\u8a8d\u8b58\u7684\u4eba\u8ac7\u8ad6\u4f60\u7684\u524d\u4efb\u65e2\u5c37\u5c2c\u53c8\u6c92\u5fc5\u8981\u3002\u4f60\u4e5f\u4e0d\u60f3\u7d66\u4eba\u9019\u7a2e\u5370\u8c61\uff1a\u4ed6\/\u5979\u5728\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u9084\u5c0d\u524d\u4efb\u5ff5\u5ff5\u4e0d\u5fd8\uff0c\u5982\u679c\u78ba\u5be6\u5982\u6b64\uff0c\u90a3\u4f60\u5c31\u4e0d\u61c9\u8a72\u4f86\u7d04\u6703\u2026\u2026<\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000Delving deep into your personal life or personal issues on first dates can be a bit much.\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u5c31\u8ac7\u53ca\u4f60\u7684\u500b\u4eba\u751f\u6d3b\u6216\u4e8b\u52d9\u53ef\u80fd\u6709\u9ede\u4e0d\u592a\u59a5\u7576\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000As the first date should be fun and about getting to know each other on a casual level. If you feel comfortable around them great, but don\u2019t give away too much too soon to someone you\u2019ve just met.\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u61c9\u8a72\u662f\u5145\u6eff\u6a02\u8da3\u7b11\u8072\uff0c\u96d9\u65b9\u589e\u9032\u4e00\u4e0b\u521d\u6b65\u7684\u76f8\u4e92\u4e86\u89e3\u3002\u5982\u679c\u4f60\u5011\u76f8\u8655\u7684\u5f88\u6109\u5feb\uff0c\u90a3\u5f88\u597d\uff0c\u4f46\u5c0d\u65bc\u525b\u8a8d\u8b58\u4e0d\u4e45\u7684\u4eba\uff0c\u4e0d\u8981\u6b65\u8abf\u592a\u5feb\u592a\u6025\u3002<\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000If you like them after the first date, then that\u2019s great! However, you don\u2019t want to get attached too soon, just in case they\u2019re not into you.\u5982\u679c\u982d\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u5f8c\u4f60\u559c\u6b61\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u90a3\u5f88\u597d\uff01\u4f46\u4e0d\u8981\u8868\u73fe\u5f97\u592a\u6200\u6200\u4e0d\u820d\uff0c\u4e5f\u8a31\u5c0d\u65b9\u5c0d\u4f60\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u5f88\u611f\u8208\u8da3\u5462\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000Try and wait a couple of days after the date to text them, unless they say otherwise. You want to seem interested, just not overly keen, because this can be off-putting and will just be awkward for you if the feeling isn\u2019t mutual.\u5982\u679c\u5c0d\u65b9\u6c92\u4ec0\u9ebc\u8868\u793a\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u8a66\u8457\u7b49\u5e7e\u5929\u518d\u7d66\u5c0d\u65b9\u767c\u4fe1\u606f\u3002\u8868\u73fe\u5f97\u611f\u8208\u8da3\u4f46\u4e5f\u5225\u904e\u65bc\u71b1\u5207\uff0c\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u8a71\u5982\u679c\u767c\u73fe\u5c0d\u65b9\u5c0d\u4f60\u6c92\u4ec0\u9ebc\u611f\u89ba\u4e5f\u4e0d\u81f3\u65bc\u5c37\u5c2c\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000\u4ed8\u5e33\u6642\u5225\u5c0f\u6c23<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000There\u2019s typically a lot of speculation on first dates about who should pay the bill, but whoever you\u2019re dating, don\u2019t expect them to foot the bill. It\u2019s rude and presumptuous. If they offer to pay then great, but don\u2019t expect it, get your wallet out and prepare to pay for your own meal!\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6642\uff0c\u8a72\u8ab0\u4ed8\u5e33\u901a\u5e38\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u8aaa\u6cd5\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u7ba1\u4f60\u548c\u8ab0\u7d04\u6703\uff0c\u90fd\u5225\u6307\u671b\u5c0d\u65b9\u4ed8\u5e33\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u90a3\u6a23\u6703\u986f\u5f97\u4f60\u5f88\u6c92\u6709\u98a8\u5ea6\u3002\u5982\u679c\u5c0d\u65b9\u8868\u793a\u8981\u4ed8\u5e33\uff0c\u90a3\u4e5f\u4e0d\u932f\uff0c\u4f46\u4e0d\u8981\u5c0d\u6b64\u6709\u4ec0\u9ebc\u671f\u5f85\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000\u6ce8\u610f\u8981\u5403\u4ec0\u9ebc<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000If you\u2019re eating out for your first date, you might want to consider watching what you eat. Pasta, for example, can be messy and you don\u2019t want to end up spilling it down your new dress\/suit you bought specifically for the date!\u5982\u679c\u9078\u64c7\u5728\u5916\u9762\u5403\u98ef\uff0c\u6ce8\u610f\u4f60\u7684\u9078\u64c7\u3002\u8209\u500b\u4f8b\u5b50\uff0c\u62ab\u85a9\u5c31\u4e0d\u662f\u4ec0\u9ebc\u597d\u9078\u9805\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u4f60\u4e5f\u4e0d\u60f3\u628a\u70ba\u7d04\u6703\u800c\u7cbe\u5fc3\u9078\u8cfc\u7684\u8863\u670d\u5f04\u9ad2\u5427\u3002<\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000Always be polite, you want to give the best first impression of yourself possible for your first date, so think please and thank you, holding doors open and eat with your mouth shut.\u8981\u8a18\u4f4f\u96a8\u6642\u4fdd\u6301\u79ae\u8c8c\u3002\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6642\uff0c\u4f60\u7e3d\u5e0c\u671b\u80fd\u7d66\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e00\u500b\u597d\u5370\u8c61\u5427\u3002\u6240\u4ee5\u5343\u842c\u8a18\u4f4f\u70ba\u5c0d\u65b9\u958b\u9580\uff0c\u5403\u6771\u897f\u6642\u8981\u9589\u4e0a\u5634\u3002<\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000\u5225\u559d\u592a\u591a\u9152<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000Getting too drunk on a first date is an easy mistake to make, especially if you\u2019re having a great time.\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u559d\u9ad8\u662f\u5f88\u5bb9\u6613\u72af\u7684\u932f\uff0c\u7279\u5225\u662f\u7576\u4f60\u5011\u633a\u5408\u5f97\u4f86\u7684\u6642\u5019\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000The last thing you want is to get so drunk you don\u2019t remember the date, or this stranger has to become responsible for looking after you! Again, it creates a bad first impression!\u4f46\u4f60\u4e5f\u4e0d\u60f3\u559d\u7684\u592a\u591a\u800c\u628a\u9019\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u5fd8\u5f97\u5dee\u4e0d\u591a\u5427\uff0c\u6216\u8005\u5c0d\u65b9\u982d\u4e00\u6b21\u898b\u9762\u9084\u5f97\u8ca0\u8cac\u7167\u9867\u4f60\uff01\u518d\u8aaa\u4e00\u6b21\uff0c\u9019\u6703\u7d66\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e00\u500b\u5f88\u4e0d\u597d\u7684\u5370\u8c61\uff01<\/p>\n

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\u3000\u3000These tips are great advice for first dates, however, everyone has different opinions when it comes to dating about what\u2019s right and wrong. \u9019\u4e9b\u5efa\u8b70\u5c0d\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\u4f86\u8aaa\u662f\u5f88\u6709\u7528\u7684\uff0c\u4f46\u771f\u7684\u53bb\u7d04\u6703\u6642\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u6709\u8457\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u548c\u5224\u65b7\u3002<\/p>\n

\u3000\u3000Wherever you end up on your first date or whoever you\u2019re dating, just remember to be safe, have fun and always be yourself!\u7121\u8ad6\u5728\u4ec0\u9ebc\u5730\u65b9\u6216\u548c\u8ab0\u7b2c\u4e00\u6b21\u7d04\u6703\uff0c\u8a18\u4f4f\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u4fdd\u8b49\u5b89\u5168\u3001\u8b93\u81ea\u5df1\u958b\u5fc3\u4ee5\u53ca\u4e0d\u5931\u81ea\u6211\uff01<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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