{"id":36743,"date":"2023-02-12T03:07:08","date_gmt":"2023-02-11T19:07:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ek21.com\/dating\/36743\/"},"modified":"2023-02-12T03:07:08","modified_gmt":"2023-02-11T19:07:08","slug":"%e3%80%90%e6%90%ad%e8%a8%95%e7%a7%98%e6%b3%95%e3%80%91%e5%8d%81%e6%a2%9d%e7%b6%93%e8%ad%89%e5%af%a6%e7%9a%84%e5%bf%83%e7%90%86%e5%ad%b8%e6%90%ad%e8%a8%95%e7%ad%96%e7%95%a5%ef%bc%81%e6%92%a9ta%e6%9b%b4","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ek21.com\/dating\/36743\/","title":{"rendered":"\u3010\u642d\u8a15\u79d8\u6cd5\u3011\u5341\u689d\u7d93\u8b49\u5be6\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u642d\u8a15\u7b56\u7565\uff01\u64a9ta\u66f4\u8f15\u9b06\uff01"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/p1.pstatp.com\/large\/pgc-image\/6b217a0e74f245fa8b722281e78c19a9?\/1.jpg\" border=\"0\"><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Anyone who has attempted to foray into the great wide world of dating knows that, when it comes to flirting, cheesy pickup lines just don&#8217;t cut it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u6bcf\u500b\u66fe\u589c\u5165\u611b\u6d77\u7684\u4eba\u90fd\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u64a9ta\u7684\u6642\u5019\u5e79\u5e79\u5df4\u5df4\u9ebb\u9ebb\u8cf4\u8cf4\u7684\u76f4\u767d\u4ea4\u6d41\u5be6\u5728\u662f\u6c92\u4ec0\u9ebc\u7528\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Attracting a partner can be tricky, and there are many pitfalls one can fall into.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u5176\u5be6\uff0c\u60f3\u8981\u5438\u5f15ta\u662f\u53ef\u4ee5\u904b\u7528\u4e00\u4e9b\u5c0f\u5fc3\u6a5f\u7684\uff0c\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u300c\u5751\u300d\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b93ta\u6389\u9032\u53bb\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>But when it comes down to it, flirting is just an evolutionary tactic to acquire a mate for reproduction.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u96d6\u7136\uff0c\u642d\u8a15\u53ea\u662f\u4eba\u985e\u70ba\u4e86\u6c42\u5076\u7e41\u884d\u5f8c\u4ee3\u6f14\u8b8a\u51fa\u4f86\u7684\u6280\u80fd\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>With this in mind, here&#8217;s a list of 10 psychologically proven flirting strategies that actually work!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u6709\u9019\u6a23\u7684\u5148\u5c0e\u6982\u5ff5\u5f8c\uff0c\u4e0b\u9762\u4fbf\u662f 10 \u500b\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5df2\u8b49\u5be6\u7684\u5f88\u6709\u6548\u7684\u642d\u8a15\u7b56\u7565\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number 10: Eye Contact.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c 10 \u9805\uff1a\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Eye contact is key when it comes to demonstrating your attraction to another person.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u8b93\u4f60\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u5411\u5176ta\u5c55\u73fe\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>When we make eye contact with a prospective partner, we are actually searching for evidence of their attraction to us through the psychological response of pupil dilation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7576\u6211\u5011\u548c\u4e00\u500b\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u7684ta\u773c\u795e\u4ea4\u6d41\u6642\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u80fd\u5f9e\u751f\u7406\u4e0a\u7684\u77b3\u5b54\u653e\u5927\u53cd\u61c9\u5c0b\u627e\u4ed6\u5011\u88ab\u4f60\u5bc4\u5e7e\u5438\u5f15\u7684\u8b49\u64da\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>This is also why staring into one another&#8217;s eyes can often feel so intimate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u9019\u4e5f\u662f\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u4e92\u76f8\u51dd\u8996\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u611f\u5230\u5f7c\u6b64\u9760\u5f97\u66f4\u8fd1\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Therefore, one of the best ways to let someone know you&#8217;re interested in them is to gaze into their big brown, blue or green eyes.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u5c0d\u4ed6\u6709\u8208\u8da3\u6700\u597d\u7684\u65b9\u5f0f\u4e4b\u4e00\u5c31\u662f\u770b\u9032\u4ed6\u7684\u68d5\u8272\u3001\u85cd\u8272\u3001\u6216\u7da0\u8272\u7684\u5927\u773c\u775b\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number 9: Wear red.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c 9 \u9805\uff1a\u7a7f\u8457\u7d05\u8272\u7684\u8863\u7269<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Not only is red aneye catchingcolor that flatters many different skin tones,red is also a symbol of lust and sexuality.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7d05\u8272\u4e0d\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u6436\u773c\u7684\u8272\u5f69\uff0c\u7d05\u8272\u53ef\u4ee5\u8b93\u4e0d\u540c\u819a\u8272\u7684\u4eba\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u52a0\u8ff7\u4eba\uff0c\u7d05\u8272\u4e5f\u662f\u6b32\u671b\u548c\u6027\u7684\u8c61\u5fb5\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>With studies showing that, when both men and women wear red, they appear more attractive to the opposite sex.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff0c\u7576\u7537\u6027\u53ca\u5973\u6027\u90fd\u7a7f\u8457\u7d05\u8272\uff0c\u4ed6\u5011\u5c0d\u7570\u6027\u4f86\u8aaa\u6703\u66f4\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>This may be due to social expectations.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u4e5f\u8a31\u9019\u662f\u4fbf\u8981\u6b78\u65bc\u793e\u4ea4\u671f\u5f85\u611f\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>However, psychologist Adam Pasteur suggests that our attraction to red may be a hangover from humans evolutionary past.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u5bb6 Adam Pasteur \u8868\u793a\u7d05\u8272\u5c0d\u6211\u5011\u7684\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u4e5f\u8a31\u662f\u5f9e\u904e\u53bb\u4eba\u985e\u9032\u5316\u800c\u4f86\u7684\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>As animals, such as female baboons, display patches of bright red skin to indicate that they are ready to mate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u4ee5\u52d5\u7269\u4f86\u8aaa\uff0c\u50cf\u662f\u96cc\u6027\u7684\u72d2\u72d2\uff0c\u6703\u9732\u51fa\u4eae\u7d05\u8272\u7684\u808c\u819a\u8868\u793a\u4ed6\u5011\u5df2\u7d93\u6e96\u5099\u597dpapapa\u4e86\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number Eight: Be funny!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c 8 \u9805\uff1a\u6709\u8da3\u4e00\u9ede\uff01<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Humor is actually a huge factor in the search of a potential mate.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u5e7d\u9ed8\u4e8b\u5be6\u4e0a\u5728\u5c0b\u627e\u6709\u6a5f\u6703\u7684\u5c0d\u8c61\u6642\u662f\u5f88\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u56e0\u7d20\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>University of New Mexico psychologist professor, Jeffrey Miller, suggests that being funny is one ofkeyways we decide how attractive a partner is.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u65b0\u58a8\u897f\u54e5\u5927\u5b78\u7684\u5fc3\u7406\u5b78\u6559\u6388 Jeffrey Miller \u8868\u793a\u5e7d\u9ed8\u662f\u53d6\u6c7a\u65bc\u4f34\u4fb6\u591a\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u7684\u5176\u4e2d\u4e00\u9805\u95dc\u9375\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>This is because, to be truly funny, someone must be able to think quickly and be creative, skills that are extremely necessary for survival.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u56e0\u70ba\uff0c\u8eab\u70ba\u4e00\u500b\u5f88\u6709\u8da3\u7684\u4eba\u4e00\u5b9a\u601d\u8003\u654f\u6377\u3001\u5bcc\u6709\u5275\u610f\u3001\u5177\u5099\u5145\u5206\u7684\u6c42\u751f\u6280\u80fd\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>To be humorous is to be smart, so telling a joke could just result in you getting that date you wanted.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u8868\u73fe\u5e7d\u9ed8\u4e5f\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u89ba\u5f97\u4f60\u5f88\u8070\u660e\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u8b1b\u7b11\u8a71\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u8b93\u4f60\u642d\u8a15\u6210\u529f\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number Seven: play hard to get.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c 7 \u9805\uff1a\u6b32\u64d2\u6545\u7e31<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Studies show that when we&#8217;re unsure of how much someone likes us, we actually like them more than when we&#8217;re told they like us a lot.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\u7576\u6211\u5011\u4e0d\u78ba\u5b9a\u5c0d\u65b9\u591a\u559c\u6b61\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u6295\u8a3b\u7684\u611b\u6703\u6bd4\u5c0d\u65b9\u66f4\u591a\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>This could be due to the fact that playing hard to get make someone seem more desirable and sometimes even out of our league.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u9019\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u6b32\u64d2\u6545\u7e31\u8b93\u4f60\u66f4\u5728\u610f\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u6709\u6642\u8b93\u4f60\u89ba\u5f97ta\u82e5\u5373\u82e5\u96e2\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>When someone seems too needy, we&#8217;re likely to believe we can do better, so it may be better to act aloof.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7576\u5c0d\u65b9\u611f\u89ba\u4e0a\u592a\u9700\u8981\u4eba\u95dc\u5fc3\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u6703\u76f8\u4fe1\u81ea\u5df1\u53ef\u4ee5\u505a\u66f4\u597d\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6700\u597d\u8868\u73fe\u5f97\u51b7\u6de1\u4e00\u9ede\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number Six: are you a woman? Smile!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c 6 \u9ede\uff1a\u4f60\u662f\u5973\u751f\u55ce\uff1f\u5fae\u7b11\u5427\uff01<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Not only it does a smile exhibit a sense of humor anda caringnature, but it also displays good health.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u5fae\u7b11\u4e0d\u96bb\u53ef\u4ee5\u5c55\u73fe\u5e7d\u9ed8\u611f\u548c\u95dc\u611b\u4e4b\u60c5\uff0c\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u8868\u793a\u5065\u5eb7\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Research from the University of British Columbia suggests men find smiling women more attractive than prideful.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u82f1\u570b\u54e5\u502b\u6bd4\u4e9e\u5927\u5b78\u7684\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff0c\u7537\u6027\u6703\u8a8d\u70ba\u5fae\u7b11\u7684\u5973\u6027\u6703\u6bd4\u9ad8\u50b2\u7684\u5973\u6027\u66f4\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Possibly because of its association with submission and maternal urges.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u53ef\u80fd\u662f\u56e0\u70ba\u5fae\u7b11\u8207\u9806\u5f9e\u548c\u6bcd\u6027\u6c96\u52d5\u7684\u806f\u7d50\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number Five: are you a man? Brood.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c 5 \u9805\uff1a\u4f60\u662f\u7537\u6027\u55ce\uff1f\u6c89\u601d\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>The stereotype is true!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u300c\u7537\u4eba\u4e0d\u58de\u5973\u751f\u4e0d\u611b\u300d\u7684\u523b\u677f\u5370\u8c61\u662f\u771f\u7684\uff01<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>In the same study from the University of British Columbia, researchers found that women rated smiling men as the least attractive, compared with prideful and shameful looking men.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u6839\u64da\u82f1\u570b\u54e5\u502b\u6bd4\u4e9e\u5927\u5b78\u7684\u540c\u4e00\u4efd\u7814\u7a76\uff0c\u7814\u7a76\u8005\u767c\u73fe\u5973\u6027\u7d66\u4e88\u9762\u5e36\u5fae\u7b11\u7684\u7537\u6027\u7684\u8a55\u50f9\u6bd4\u9ad8\u50b2\u4e0b\u6d41\u7684\u7537\u6027\u8f03\u4f4e\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Therefore, acting like a &#8220;bad boy&#8221; may win you a mate, regardless of whether you&#8217;re actually bad or not.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u56e0\u6b64\uff0c\u50cf\u500b\u300c\u6e23\u7537\u300d\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u8b93\u4f60\u627e\u5230\u4f34\u4fb6\uff0c\u4e0d\u8ad6\u4f60\u662f\u771f\u7684\u58de\u9084\u662f\u5047\u7684\u58de\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number Four: mirror body language.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c\u56db\u9805\uff1a\u6a21\u4eff\u8eab\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>55% of attraction communication is made through body language, and one of the most subtle, yet most effective methods of flirting with someone is to mirror their actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>55% \u91cb\u653e\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u7684\u4ea4\u6d41\u65b9\u5f0f\u662f\u900f\u904e\u80a2\u9ad4\u8a9e\u8a00\uff0c\u5176\u4e2d\u6700\u7d30\u5fae\u4f46\u6700\u6709\u6548\u7684\u64a9\u4eba\u65b9\u6cd5\u5c31\u662f\u53bb\u6a21\u4eff\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u52d5\u4f5c\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>This is because we unconsciously copy those we&#8217;re attracted to as a sign that we&#8217;re interested in what they&#8217;re saying.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u5011\u7121\u610f\u8b58\u5730\u5fa9\u5236\u4e86\u559c\u6b61\u5c0d\u8c61\u7684\u52d5\u4f5c\uff0c\u6697\u793a\u6211\u5011\u5c0d\u65bc\u5c0d\u65b9\u8aaa\u7684\u8a71\u5f88\u611f\u8208\u8da3\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Mirroring someone demonstrates that we have good communication skills, but also that we&#8217;re invested in their thoughts and feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u6a21\u4eff\u5c0d\u65b9\u5c55\u73fe\u51fa\u6211\u5011\u6709\u826f\u597d\u7684\u6e9d\u901a\u6280\u5de7\uff0c\u4f46\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u5728\u63a2\u8a0e\u5c0d\u65b9\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u611f\u53d7\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>This is also a way of knowing whether someone is interested in you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u9019\u4e5f\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u77e5\u9053\u5c0d\u65b9\u662f\u5426\u559c\u6b61\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u65b9\u6cd5\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>If they copy your mirroring, they may just reciprocate your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u5982\u679c\u5c0d\u65b9\u53c8\u5fa9\u5236\u4e86\u4f60\u7684\u52d5\u4f5c\uff0c\u5c0d\u65b9\u53ef\u80fd\u5728\u56de\u50b3\u4f60\u7684\u5fc3\u610f\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Number Three: Be a smooth talker.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u7b2c\u4e09\u9805\uff1a\u8b1b\u8a71\u6d41\u66a2<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Pitch and tone actually have a lot more to do with flirting than one may think.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u8abf\u5b50\u548c\u53e3\u543b\u5c0d\u65bc\u642d\u8a15\u6bd4\u6211\u5011\u60f3\u50cf\u4e2d\u7684\u66f4\u6709\u5f71\u97ff\u529b\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Research from MIT suggests that men are more attracted to women that vary their tone at which they speak.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>\u9ebb\u7701\u7406\u5de5\u5b78\u9662\u7684\u7814\u7a76\u986f\u793a\uff0c\u5973\u6027\u8aaa\u8a71\u6642\u8b8a\u63db\u53e3\u543b\u5c0d\u7537\u6027\u800c\u8a00\u66f4\u6709\u5438\u5f15\u529b\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u3000\u3000<strong>Women whose voices went up and down in frequency received more romantic interest from men than those who speak with a flatter 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