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A lecture on love has become wildly popular in Wuhan University recently, with photos of the packed class circulating widely on social media \u2014 students were seen huddling at windows and forming long lines for the talk of the campus.<\/p>\n

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\u201dThe Beauty of Love\u201d, presented by Professor Yu Feng from the School of Philosophy, ignited students\u2019 passion for knowledge by applying psychology to the practice of intimate relations.<\/p>\n

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\u201dThe popularity of the class reflects students\u2019 longing for love and eagerness for psychological knowledge,\u201d said Yu. \u201cFor me, it\u2019s also a form of personal encouragement.\u201d<\/p>\n

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The purpose of the class is to help college students understand what goes behind a healthy, romantic relationship.<\/p>\n

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Based on psychological theory, the lecture aims to answer important questions about love \u2014 what it is, why it occurs and how to go about it, in a progressive manner.<\/p>\n

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According to the university\u2019s official WeChat account, Yu\u2019s definition of healthy love is selfless interaction between the couple; with both sides enjoying and maintaining intimate feelings in line with mutual commitment, unlike the fading of an initial crush.<\/p>\n

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True love, however, isn\u2019t cognitive dissonance as a result of being emotionally moved. In some ways, it should involve two-way adaptation, compromise and achievement.<\/p>\n

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Stay away from gaslighting, or being manipulated by your counterpart<\/p>\n

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Keep effective communication to know more about your loved one<\/p>\n

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Extend your social circle to find your real love<\/p>\n

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\u201dIn addition to lecturing on theories, he uses lively cases and plenty of visual tools. I like his course more than other professors\u2019 classes.\u201d<\/p>\n

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\u201dI\u2019ve learned to understand love in a different mindset. Most people perceive love via their feelings, but his class told us to approach it through psychology. The most important thing for lovers is to seek common ground because it can raise their level of communication.\u201d<\/p>\n

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