#24歲遭遇父母催婚怎麼辦##24歲遭遇父母催婚怎麼辦#24歲按正常的讀書年紀，應該才大學畢業兩年，運氣好的也就才工作兩年，運氣不好的，還在備考各種事業單位或者考公務員中。你的父母是大款？還是家產多了怕沒有人繼承，要催著你結婚生子繼承家產？
結婚的目的就是為了生兒育女，但生兒育女要有錢才可以生和養啊。單說結婚吧，總得有個住所吧，你才工作兩年，你能買得起房嗎？如果你是一個男孩子，你要結婚得給女方彩禮吧，當然我說的彩禮是你自己拿你自己的錢給女方，沒有說叫你父母幫你出彩禮錢。
作為父母，養兒養女相當不容易和辛苦，你的父母有點糊塗，他們不會享受生活，也不會享受人生。按理說，你才二十四歲，你的父母應當鼓勵好好工作，好好存錢，等你有了一定的經濟基礎時，你就有能力拿出錢來買房子，給女方彩禮。
建議你和你的父母好好溝通一下，讓他們明白生活的真諦，好不容易把孩子養大了，就好好善待一下自己，好好享受幾年好生活，讓自己孩子好好奔奔自己的前程，自己也好好享受一下屬於自己的好生活。人活著並不是為了結婚生子的，生活有更多的東西值得我們去享受。
假如你的父母是大款，錢多得用不了的話，我就不敢講什麼了，因為有錢就可以任性地生活和催兒女結婚，因為有錢，自己的兒女不用找工作，更不用擔心房子和彩禮的事，但我相信，這種可能性不大，因為真正有錢的大款，不會催自己的兒女結婚，真正的大款，他們會鼓勵自己的兒女先立業再成家，打拼一番事業，有了自己的事業，還要好好的幫兒女挑一個門當戶對，三觀一致的對象才會同意結婚。一般催婚催生的父母都沒有多少見識和文化，根本不懂生活是什麼，婚姻是什麼，世界這麼大，自己的兒女都沒有去好好看看，就包括他們自己怕也沒有好好去見識和看看，就催著自己的兒女結婚，我想，他們是糊塗的，他們不懂得生活是什麼，婚姻是什麼。
結婚也要好好選選挑挑，看看自己有沒有能力結婚再結婚。窮眉窮眼的最好不要結婚，結了婚也是過苦日子，世間多少真情最後敗給了現實，這年頭，離了錢，什麼也玩不轉。沒有錢，就算是結了婚，也是成天吵架，成天相互指責，生了孩子，也是跟著受罪。窮就別結婚了，一個人窮好了，不要禍害對方和兒女。如果你很有錢，你可以隨心所欲，愛結就結吧，有錢就好過了，沒有錢結了婚也是受罪。
#24歲遭遇父母催婚怎麼辦#24歲按正常的讀書年紀，應該才大學畢業兩年，運氣好的也就才工作兩年，運氣不好的，還在備考各種事業單位或者考公務員中。你的父母是大款？還是家產多了怕沒有人繼承，要催著你結婚生子繼承家產？
#What should I do if my parents urge me to get married at the age of 24 #24? According to the normal age of study, I should only graduate from college for two years, and those who are lucky will only work for two years. Those who are unlucky are still preparing for various public institutions or civil servants. Are your parents rich? Or do you want to urge you to get married and have children to inherit your family property for fear that no one will inherit it?
結婚的目的就是為了生兒育女，但生兒育女要有錢才可以生和養啊。單說結婚吧，總得有個住所吧，你才工作兩年，你能買得起房嗎？如果你是一個男孩子，你要結婚得給女方彩禮吧，當然我說的彩禮是你自己拿你自己的錢給女方，沒有說叫你父母幫你出彩禮錢。
The purpose of marriage is to have children, but having children requires money to have children. Just to get married, you have to have a residence. You have only worked for two years. Can you afford a house? If you are a boy, you have to give the bride price to the woman if you want to get married. Of course, I said the bride price is that you give your own money to the woman, not asking your parents to help you make the money.
作為父母，養兒養女相當不容易和辛苦，你的父母有點糊塗，他們不會享受生活，也不會享受人生。按理說，你才二十四歲，你的父母應當鼓勵好好工作，好好存錢，等你有了一定的經濟基礎時，你就有能力拿出錢來買房子，給女方彩禮。
As parents, it’s not easy and hard to raise children and daughters. Your parents are a little confused. They won’t enjoy life and life. It is reasonable to say that you are only 24 years old. Your parents should encourage you to work hard and save money well. When you have a certain economic foundation, you will be able to take out money to buy a house and give a bride price to the woman.
建議你和你的父母好好溝通一下，讓他們明白生活的真諦，好不容易把孩子養大了，就好好善待一下自己，好好享受幾年好生活，讓自己孩子好好奔奔自己的前程，自己也好好享受一下屬於自己的好生活。人活著並不是為了結婚生子的，生活有更多的東西值得我們去享受。
I suggest you and your parents have a good communication to let them understand the true meaning of life. When you finally raise your children, treat yourself well, enjoy a good life for several years, let your children run their own future and enjoy their own good life. People don’t live to get married and have children. There are more things in life that we should enjoy.
假如你的父母是大款，錢多得用不了的話，我就不敢講什麼了，因為有錢就可以任性地生活和催兒女結婚，因為有錢，自己的兒女不用找工作，更不用擔心房子和彩禮的事，但我相信，這種可能性不大，因為真正有錢的大款，不會催自己的兒女結婚，真正的大款，他們會鼓勵自己的兒女先立業再成家，打拼一番事業，有了自己的事業，還要好好的幫兒女挑一個門當戶對，三觀一致的對象才會同意結婚。一般催婚催生的父母都沒有多少見識和文化，根本不懂生活是什麼，婚姻是什麼，世界這麼大，自己的兒女都沒有去好好看看，就包括他們自己怕也沒有好好去見識和看看，就催著自己的兒女結婚，我想，他們是糊塗的，他們不懂得生活是什麼，婚姻是什麼。
If your parents are rich and have too much money to use, I dare not say anything, because if you have money, you can live willfully and urge your children to get married. Because you have money, your children don’t have to find a job, let alone worry about the house and bride price, but I believe this possibility is not great, because the really rich won’t urge your children to get married, the really rich, They will encourage their children to start a career before starting a family, work hard for a career, have their own career, and help their children to choose a good match. Only those with the same three views will agree to get married. Generally, the parents who urge marriage don’t have much knowledge and culture. They don’t know what life is and what marriage is. The world is so big that their children don’t have a good look, including their own fear and failure to see and see, so they urge their children to get married. I think they are confused. They don’t know what life is and what marriage is.
結婚也要好好選選挑挑，看看自己有沒有能力結婚再結婚。窮眉窮眼的最好不要結婚，結了婚也是過苦日子，世間多少真情最後敗給了現實，這年頭，離了錢，什麼也玩不轉。沒有錢，就算是結了婚，也是成天吵架，成天相互指責，生了孩子，也是跟著受罪。窮就別結婚了，一個人窮好了，不要禍害對方和兒女。如果你很有錢，你可以隨心所欲，愛結就結吧，有錢就好過了，沒有錢結了婚也是受罪。
When you get married, you should also choose carefully to see if you have the ability to get married and then get married. Poor rice and poor eyes had better not get married. Marriage is also a hard life. How much truth in the world is finally lost to reality. These days, you can’t play anything without money. Without money, even if you are married, you will quarrel all day, blame each other all day, and suffer with having children. If you are poor, don’t get married. If you are poor, don’t harm each other and children. If you have a lot of money, you can do whatever you want. If you love to marry, it’s better to have money. If you don’t have money, you also suffer.
- 怎麼辦 What to do now? ; What should I do? What’s to be done?
- 大學畢業 graduate from a university ; pass through a college
- 運氣好 lucky
- 運氣不好 out of luck ; bad luck ; have bad luck
- 事業單位 institution ; government-sponsored institution
- 沒有人 nobody ; never a one
- 生兒育女 bear sons and daughters ; bear children ; give birth to and raise children ; multiply the earth
- 買得起 be able to afford ; swing
- 你自己 yourself
- 自己的 self
